Before age 40, Set aside 100 minutes a day to learn these skills
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- Learn manipulation:-
People around you are self-centered. You’ll identify instances of manipulation around you and act right.
This will also be a game-changer for you.
- Learn how to fight;-
There comes a time when you must defend yourself.
Failures to defend yourself will be seen as a weakness
Do this:
-Set aside 100 minutes daily
-Hire a trainer days
-Commit to at least 180 days
You’ll learn all basics.
- Learn Role-Playing:--
People should know “just enough” about your life.
Leading a mysterious life is attractive.
You should know:
-what to share
-To whom
-when and how
Wear Different hats and enjoy the game.
- Learn Brutal Self-criticism:-
The only to understand people around you is to know yourself first.
Be honest with yourself and:
-call yourself out for your headquarters
-cut habits against your purpose
-Create the person you need
Your life will be 10x faster.
- Learn how to doubt
and Question everything:
Stop believing:
-what’s famous
-What’s common
-Experts and Evidence
People try to assert their beliefs for power
Do this:
-learn what there is
-Observe without judgement
-understand what serves you now
- How to Talk:--
Most people around you talk “just for the sake of it”
You’ll always be judged according to what you say.
You need to know
-how to talk
-when to talk
-who to talk to
This’ll save 99% of the energy you’d have wasted in arguments.
- Learn how to handle
wins and losses:-
You’ve been taught to enjoy wins and dread losses.
You should know:
-some wins are a tragedy in disguise
-wins and losses should be lessons
-All losses are greater wins
- How To forgive and Let Go:--
You’ll rub shoulders with people you’ll
-Like
-hate
-fight with/for
In most cases, you can avoid someone instead of hitting them.
People are always doing When right for them.
